Notice the good - on purpose!

Yes! Send it my way!

Want to Help Build Character and Raise Confident Boys?

This toolkit gives you simple ways to slow down, speak life, and help them see the good you see.

Packed with trait cards, a keepsake template, reflection prompts, note cards, and coloring pages, it gives you a fun, stress-free way to build character and confidence—one genuine conversation at a time.

Because let’s be real…the world will try to tear them down. This helps us pour truth in first.

Yes! I want to speak life into my kids!

$9.99

Helps you say what matters most—before the moment passes.

This toolkit makes it easy to speak truth and encouragement over your child—right when it counts.

Gives you simple tools to help build their character.

Everything you need—trait cards, templates, and prompts—to help build character through simple, intentional conversations.

Notice the good on purpose!

It's a gentle nudge to pause, see your child clearly, and remind them of all the good you see inside.

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A Simple Way to Build Them Up

You already love your child deeply, and they need to
hear it in words.

But sometimes, it’s hard to find the words—or the time to say them, and this gives you a place to start .

"I see this in you. I’m proud of you. This is who you are to me."

It’s not about doing it all perfectly. It’s about saying what matters—on purpose—before the moment passes.

Because how you speak into them today shapes who they believe they are tomorrow.

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Want the girls version instead?
👉 Get the Girls Version for $14.99

Looking for a sweet and meaningful way to encourage your daughter?

This version helps you speak right to her heart—with traits and prompts designed to help her feel seen, valued, and deeply loved.

Need both? Save with the Bundle!
👉 Get the Boys + Girls Bundle for $19.99

Have more than one kiddo you want to encourage? Save $10 when you grab the bundle—perfect for families with multiple kids!

This bundle gives you both the boys’ and girls’ versions—so each child feels uniquely seen and celebrated.

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It All Starts Here: The 'I Am' Template

Print the trait cards, cut them out, and sit down with your child to choose the ones that fit them best—whether it’s who they already are (kind, brave, helpful) or who they’re growing into.

As you glue each one onto the template, talk about what that word means and why you chose it for them. It’s such a simple activity, but the conversations that come out of it? So powerful.

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You know that look your child gets when you brag on them a little?

Create a simple keepsake your child can see every day—a sweet reminder that they are known, loved, and celebrated.

Then, watch them light up from the inside out as they see the words you've chosen to describe them! Priceless!!

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125 Printable Note Cards—3 for each character trait, plus a few bonus cards!

These printable cards make it easy to say the things you mean to say more often.

Just pick a character trait, fill in the prompt, and leave it somewhere your child will find it.

It’s a small gesture that can make a big difference, because being noticed in the little moments tells them they matter.

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Speak straight to their heart!

Use the fill-in-the-blank cards to encourage your child in small, powerful ways—whether it’s taped to a mirror or tucked under their pillow.

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40 Character-Based Coloring Sheets

Each page is tied to a character trait—like honesty, kindness, or courage—and features a simple question to help your child connect the dots.

It’s a playful but powerful way to help your child see the good you already see in them.

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You don't have to wait for the perfect moment to speak life over your child.

What Do You See in Me? makes it simple to start right now—one word,

one note, one powerful connection at a time.

Yes!! This sounds amazing! I want it now! $14.99

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The What Do You See in Me? Toolkit

includes everything listed below!

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What Do You See in Me? Template

Create a daily visual reminder that shows your child just how seen and loved they are.

Includes 40 descriptive character trait cards with kid-friendly definitions—perfect for sparking conversations about who they are and what makes them special.

125 Printable Note Cards with Prompts to Personalize

Each card features a character trait and a simple prompt to help you express what you see in your child.

Tuck them into lunchboxes, backpacks, and under pillows—or tape them to a mirror—as gentle reminders that your child is seen and loved.

40 Character -Themed Coloring Pages

These fun, printable pages give your child a creative and meaningful way to reflect on each character trait.

Each page includes a simple question to spark conversation while they color—making it easy to talk about who they are as they do something they love.

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Help your child see what you already see in them.

No perfect words needed—just your heart and these simple tools.

Because your voice? It matters more than you know.

Created for Real Life Parents (Like You!)

What Do You See in Me? was made for real families and real moments—bedtime chats, after-school car rides, dinner table talks, or those quiet minutes before lights out.

You can use it all at once or a little at a time - whatever works for you.

No pressure. Just presence.

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This is for you IF...

You want your child to truly believe in their strengths.

Imagine them hearing:

"You're persistent - I noticed you didn't give up."

“You’re creative—your ideas always make things more fun.”

And actually believing it.

You want to notice character moments that matter.

Picture your child's face lighting up when you acknowledge their patience, determination, or thoughtfulness in specific moments.

You love seeing your child's smile when they feel truly seen.

Imagine their eyes lighting up as they find your note under their pillow.

"I loved watching you help your brother today - you were so gentle with him!"

These tiny moments of being seen? They mean everything.

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Every child wants to know: What do others see in me?

That quiet question lives in the hearts of our kids, whether they say it or not.

This toolkit was created to help you answer it—on purpose, with love, and with words that stick.

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Hey y'all!

We’re Gary and Kasey—parents of four, with two in college and two still in elementary school.

Over the years, we’ve seen how powerful it is when kids feel truly seen and encouraged, not just for what they do, but for who they’re becoming.

This toolkit was born out of a moment that stopped us in our tracks. One day, someone called our youngest “trash” on the playground—and it made us stop in our tracks. We realized that even though we thought we were encouraging the good, we weren’t always being as specific or intentional as we could

That question—What do others see in me?—is something every child quietly wonders.

We created this resource to help you answer that question with purpose—using simple words, ordinary moments, and meaningful connection.

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How To Get Started

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You’ll be on your way to results that really stick.

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Frequently Asked Questions

You have questions...and WE have answers!!

Do I have to print everything at once?

Not at all! We recommend starting with the keepsake template, trait cards, and adjective definitions. Then, you can print encouragement notes and coloring pages as you focus on each trait—just a little at a time, when it works for you.

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Want to Help Build Character and Raise Confident Boys?

Helps you say what matters most—before the moment passes.